How to add pronouns to your profile

We believe that everyone deserves the right to love whomever they choose, and express themselves in the way they feel most comfortable, so we’re proud to be the first major dating app to create a space for members to declare their pronouns.  


Pronouns are personal, so we want you to be able to choose the ones that are right for you. Once you identify as LGBTQ+, you can select or write in your pronouns by going to your pronouns field on your profile. You can either pick he/him, she/her, they/them, or you can type in your pronouns to be what you’d like. We do have certain offensive terms, however, that have been blocked.To add, change, or remove your pronouns from your profile:

  • This feature is available to non-binary people and other members of the LGBTQ+ community. Make sure you’ve selected your gender(s). You can do this by going to your profile and clicking on profile details (where you also enter your orientation, relationship status, etc).
  • Once you’ve done this, you can update your pronouns on your profile (next to the 📣) by either selecting a dropdown option (he/him, she/her, they/them) or typing in whatever pronouns you want—you can also remove pronouns here by selecting (leave this blank).
  • If you’ve entered in pronouns, they will show up on your profile for all other members who see your profile.

Anyone who sees your profile will see your pronouns on your profile if you select them.



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