Is OkCupid really free? Yes! Accounts on OkCupid are entirely free, forever, but we do have a few paid feature offerings. The paid features are great to have, but not completely necessary for using the site. We always let you see your mutual Likes for free. You can see your recent mutual Likes in the New Matches tab of your messaging page. Messaging on OkCupid is completely free. Once you and someone else Like each other, you can send each other messages from your messaging page. Want more? You can read about our paid features here.