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Messaging and Communication

• How to send an introductory message to someone
• Why OkCupid hides someone after you send an introductory message to them
• How To Make The First Move On A Guy? 6 Tips & Advice for Every Situation
• Mailbox size
• How to see new Intros and Conversations
• How to write a great introduction

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Finding and Liking Matches

• How to see who likes you (for free)
• How to Use Discover
• Stacks
• About "Preferences"
• How to Like and Pass on profiles

Your profile details and Settings

• How to delete or disable your account
• Non-Monogamy on OkCupid
• How to change or reset your password
• Editing email subscriptions/ notifications
• Monogamy and Non-Monogamy
• All about essays, topics, and interests

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Photos

• Why was my photo deleted?
• What if I don't want to post a photo?
• Link Instagram to your OkCupid profile
• How to upload and adjust photos
• How to choose great photos
• Photo rules

Questions and Match %

• How is Match Percentage Calculated? Discover All Our Matching System Secrets
• All about Match Questions

Paid features and Billing

• How to cancel a subscription
• About Incognito
• How to add, change or remove payment information
• About OkCupid Basic
• About OkCupid Premium
• Restoring Transactions (if you paid but don't see features)

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• SMS verification
• Why can't I find my country?
• Bug Reporting
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• iTunes purchasing error message troubleshooting
• The App Store says 17+, why won't you let me sign up?

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Rules and Reporting

• How to report a profile, photo, or message
• Why was my account banned?
• Someone has taken over my account

Privacy and Safety

• How to Opt Out of Surveys After You’ve Deleted Your Account
• Consent and Dating
• Safety tips
• Privacy Controls
• Blocking and Unmatching

LGBTQ+ Resources

• Lesbian Dating Advice & Tips on Gay Flirting & First Dates: How to Do it Right and Start a Great Lesbian Relationship
• Am I Non-Binary? How To Know If You're Non-Binary & What Does It Mean In The Dating World?
• How to add pronouns to your profile
• Privacy controls for the LGBTQ+ community
• Gender-Identity Inclusive Design on OkCupid
• Gender and Orientation on OkCupid

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• What is a Unicorn in a Relationship? Understanding the Unicorn Dating World
• Whatever happened to all the tests and quizzes?

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